Transcending the Twin Flame Distortion

A New Age deception and the true Hieros Gamos

Ok, before I start, I have a feeling that this will be the first of many in the realm of Twin Flames because there is SO much to cover and the concept of the Hieros Gamos is something that it still being revealed to me.

Equally, there’s loads to cover under the guise of the Twin Flame deception and the Hijacking that continues to trap the true feminine essence on this earth. How exciting. I fucking love this topic.

If you haven’t been sucked into the Twin Flame phenomena yet, then lucky you! Because fuck me, it’s chaotic, gut wrenching, confusing, soul sucking and up until recently - has felt like a fucking curse.

Depending on who you ask, the definition of a Twin Flame will differ, but the most common, New Age understanding and distortion is that before we incarnated, our soul was spilt into 2 polarising energies (the masculine and the feminine), and somewhere out there, is someone with the other half of our soul, our divine counterpart. Once you’re spiritually awakened enough, you’ll come across them, and the spiritual connection will suck you in and feel like heaven on earth, as your masculine and feminine energies come together to merge in the physical. The catch - the one who embodied the masculine (usually the man) won’t be healed enough.

They’ll still be in their “player” energy, non-committal, trapped chasing vices, doing soul-sucking things and taking you for granted. But, as a loving, feminine woman, you must submit to him, you must dedicate your life to trying to raise him up out of his lower masculine and into his divine masculine archetype. Take his shit, let him go off and cheat, trap you in 3rd party relationships and wait for him. Because, after all, he is the other half to your soul and you’ll never find anyone like him again. You’ll hear the terms “runner” and “chaser” in this space, as they say the Masculine begins to run away, too afraid of the connection, whilst the feminine chases, trying to make him see that they’re meant to be. Only, and ONLY when the feminine decides to find her worth and stop chasing him, will it create an energetic balance, so he realises what he’s lost, step up the plate, and claim his divine counterpart. (Spoiler, he doesn’t. So the woman starts chasing again).

By the way, if this is sounding like some fucked up Disney shit, I know. But it’s genuinely what a lot of people believe and is something I was trapped in for years.

It’s such a fucked up, distorted and inverted perception of true divine counterparts and the work they get to facilitate. It’s keeping people trapped in horrific, toxic, cycles under the guide of a spiritually hierarchical order or relationships.

If I could give it a visual, it would be the Devil Tarot card. Bound, trapped and controlled by a force that has ill intentions, with neither party realising that they could just take the chain from off over their head and walk away.

And how fitting, that this distortion has come live and direct from the Devil himself. Well, if the devil is a group of negative entities that have ceased control over this planet for eons and continue creating distortions and overlays to blind humanity from the truth of our power and connection to the cosmos. Anyway, I digress, a post on these entities will soon be revealed.

So, now you know about the distorted Twin Flames, but as always with these pricks, they always mix a bit of truth with a few lies to leave us even more confused and discombobulated. Most of these connections are genuine, spiritual and fucking intense, yes. But currently, I’m not convinced that these connections fall under the true “Twin Flame” / Hieros Gamos Union.

Hear me out. There’s a lot of talk about the chakras in the body, energy centres 1-7, but we have 15 chakras in total that make up the light body & merkaba. This is where it starts to get complicated, and if you want to read more in-depth, you can read more over at Ascension Glossary (which, btw, I recommend you save that website and study it. Lisa Renee has been massive in piecing together my own innerstandings!)

Image from Ascension Glossary

Our soul (or higher self) is only the beginning of just how VAST our soul actually is. It’s so big, with so many components and expressions, that quit frankly, our human mind cannot even comprehend it. There are other parts of our soul currently incarnated here on this planet (as well as existing in other time space dimensions) that we meet throughout our life time. Think of it like different balls of light in different bodies that resonate with each other unconsciously (or sometimes consciously!). These “False” Twin Flames, I believe (for the most part), are a part of this phenomena - meeting other parts of our oversoul in different bodies. This explains the deep, spiritual connection, the similarities in lifestyle, life path & experience and most of the time - telepathic communication.

As we know, we attract whatever we are an energetic match to, which would make sense, that we attract different parts of our oversoul into our reality as there are parts of ourselves currently energetically matched to another.

The catch is - most of the time, as women, we tend to be more “in tune” with our higher self & our spirituality, meaning that we feel the energetic resonance more, because we have access to more parts of our oversoul. So, when we’re telepathically communicating or having spiritual connections with men, we’re usually communicating with the mans higher self, not their current, usually more “human/egoic” self. Sometimes, these men are not consciously communicating with their higher self, they are running on societal & generational programming and haven’t yet strengthened the channel between their ego and their soul. This is why they tend to “run”, too busy preoccupied with the 5 senses and desires of the flesh.

Chasing these men, waiting for them to build this connection is a waste of time, because we are all on our own path of remembrance and ascension, and no one can forcibly make someone “wake up”.

Now, I said this is what I “mostly” believe is going on here, because there is a more nefarious side that is also playing alongside this reality. Parts of some of these men’s consciousness have been hijacked by nefarious entities for a very nefarious purpose.

Mostly unbeknownst to these men, they are being used as pawns by these entities to trap the feminine consciousness into a looping lower timeline in an attempt to; A) prevent her from remembering her true power, which; B) would delay the awakening process and the Divine Mother templates from being reactivated.

Some of these men, have had overlays inserted into their consciousness to distort their true nature, which means that even though you feel the energetic resonance (because they are still part of your oversoul), there are parts of them that have been twisted and anchored into lower timelines, to pull you in and keep you from reaching your souls true potential for as long as possible.

PS, It hasn’t (and would never) work but it has kept some women looping in these lower timelines.

Now, onto the true Hieros Gamos.

Image from Ascension Glossary

We have been made to reflect the true nature of God’s image. We have been genetically created as either male or female, and each of us does have a genetic equal in this harmonic universe. These twins have sacred spiritual pieces of the other within themselves that are specifically designed to advance each other spiritually.

One of us holds the genetic Feminine principal of magnetism, pulling in and receiving frequencies, whilst the Masculine is the electrical polarity that pushes out the transmitting of energy frequencies. When these two come together in a balanced way, the unification of these sacred polarities creates massive amounts of power and amplifies manifestation power and spiritual advancement. The balance of these forces was intended to spiritually accelerate each other into consciousness evolution and greater soul remembrances.

You will know whether you have met your “true” counterpart, by his ability and dedication to embodying higher aspects of his soul. By his dedication to his shadow, that prevents hims from “running” away from the work to bring the energetic balance.

But, you can only meet someone as deep as you have met yourself. If you wish to experience such a connection, your focus should be on balancing your own inner masculine and feminine aspects.

Phew. That was a lot. Are you still with me? 😅

There will definitely be more parts on this topic, because this hasn’t even scratched the surface. But you liked this rabbit hole, subscribe to see whats next!